Dec 2017 Stuff.co.nz
Despite experiencing hearing loss a child, 16-year-old Kyle Cloete is a passionate film-maker, and has already won awards for his short films. He shares his story as part of Disability Pride week, to inspire other young people living with disability. I have two worlds – the hearing side and the deaf side. When I was born, my mum knew something was wrong but the doctor repeatedly assured her "Oh no, your baby is fine, don't worry about it”. I wasn't fine. After we moved to New Zealand, doctors found a tumour in my right ear. I needed surgery, and subsequently I was left with one completely deaf ear and moderate hearing loss in the other. I am forever in my parents' debt. They have always supported me and believed that I can achieve whatever I want to do.
Kyle Cloete says if you believe in yourself, you might end up doing what you love for the rest of your life.
As a child, mum wanted to expose me to as many different languages as possible, both visual and oral. My mother is deaf herself so she communicated with me using sign language. My first signs at 6 months were mummy, moon and light. Sign language is so visual, which is why I also love comic books. I was also exposed to the oral world through music, and at seven I was fitted with a cochlear implant which gave me more access to the hearing world.
School was sometimes challenging, as I would miss out on the teacher's instructions, but otherwise I was much the same as other students. I feel lucky to live in New Zealand -compared with other countries in the world, it's very diverse and I have never felt that people judged me because of my disability. Sign language became an official language in New Zealand in 2006, and as more people learn it, our society becomes more inclusive, which is awesome. The deaf community is like a family. If you ever go to a deaf club, you'll be amazed at how quickly people can pick up signs because it is visual language.
I want to show people my world, and share other people's stories too. I think that's why I am so passionate about directing and screenwriting. I know it will be a long road, but I'll do whatever it takes to get there because that's all I want to do. My all-time favourite movie is an old film The Good, The Bad and The Ugly - I just love how Blondie is a silent character. I may be hard of hearing, but I never saw that as an excuse not to make films. You can't let your disability define who you are. You need to believe in yourself when nobody else believes in you. You need to imagine yourself in the future going "hey, I want that". The next thing you know, you might be doing what you love for the rest of your life too.